Showing posts with label Women. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Women. Show all posts

Wednesday, March 18, 2009

20090318

Dear darlingest Annemiyang Marie,

Here in my native Philippines, my love, this month of March is Women's Month. We should work on an entry about Women within the month and polish up what we already have here in Planet Annelies and include something about the hijab or the Muslim headscarf with a view to quell common stereotypes and broaden the understanding of people about this as an issue for Women.

Now, I am no expert on Islam, my love, but I do know about chastity, having been constantly fighting to maintain it in my soul. The battle for chastity, its course and its objective, is the same in both sexes, yet this is a warfare that is oftentimes more intensely fought within the souls of men more than in women. Further this with an understanding of the complementary functions of the gender opposites, free will and the link between the hijab and the virtue of chastity can now be established.

I care about the Filipino in particular, my love, as I care about all human beings in general. And should I have been destined by Almighty God not to marry and not to have children, then I know in my heart that I also have my nation as my own, greater family of friends, (of cats, big and small) - in the universe that lives within my soul with you, my loveliest love - as a nation distinct from other nations and dwelling in Covenant grace with all the kindred nations of Mankind. And that means caring for and understanding our Filipino Muslims most especially, them being our most visible minority. Of course, that is not to say that the less visible shall be less wanted or cared for - the "one" in the "one Republic" does not stand for lies, half-truths or fractions but for the unity of the one whole nation of the Filipino people under the eternal vigilance of Almighty God. Because if we as a nation in time and dimensional space are unable to care for the least of our brethren who are in the language of the one Solidarity: our Lord's poor, there will be no eternal Philippines. And if we can not establish in our hearts the timeless destiny of the Filipino nation, we will never gain sight of our vision in God as one Country.

Mind you, it is not mere consolation for me to be granted by our LORD with the enabling grace to remain single and chaste for the rest of my life here in this world, my love, but it is what I personally prefer to be - because, if our LORD shall permit it, I simply want to be laid to my rest, one day after my purpose is done, in Bergen Belsen with you, my darlingest dear.

One last thing for the day, my love. Our military as a whole must be apolitical, that is true. But the soldier is also a citizen of the Republic and therefore must be able to exercise their right to vote. But in secret ballot and as individuals not as a political bloc. Within the AFP, they can not discuss politics with their peers but within their families, they must be able to express their own democratic views within the framework of the trust that exists between families as a one whole within greater wholes that form our one Republic. It would not serve the Filipino nation in the mid to long term not to have our own Republic defenders have their own stake in the electoral process that form the civilian government under whose command structures they shall with courage, honor and fidelity submit nothing less than the entirety of each of their lives together.

We have much to learn as we mature as a nation and we must be glad to learn them for by doing so, we not only help our fellow compatriots, past, present and future, advance the cause of our own particular endeavor of Country but we also help build a better place for all the generations of life to come by gaining for the one family of the nations of Mankind, the fruits purposed by Almighty God from eternity to become fulfilled by the good of our nation as a mature nation and most especially as a nation ascended and perfected in God in eternity.

And so it is the same with all the nations of Mankind, some are young, some are searching for themselves, some are near the realization of their promise as a mature whole, and some are even yet to be born.

For nothing in this world really stays still, a stone becomes a hearth, a tree becomes a home, water and earth cycles from life to life, from stars to worlds, creature to creature, all the giving through grace of our LORD God is everywhere poured forth to gain for all of sacred life, the higher purposes for which all of this creation is established which is the glory of God and the realization of all living hope for the gifts of lasting and everlasting things. Only the heart must stay still in the stillness that awaits the dawning from within and the advent of peace. And everywhere around us, everything is stirring towards remembrance of the things that must remain, the things that ought to endure with the prevailing of all things, as the terrible darkness of the past slowly fades away into nothingness.

It's been a swell day, uhm, night at work, my darlingest dear. This afternoon - novena, rosary and Holy Mass then a little dinner out with my Yang-yang Marie. Yay! I'm so glad to have you as my friend, my love.

I love you.

Always to always,

Pusing

Monday, March 2, 2009

20090302

Dear darlingest Miyang Marie,

Women - the dignity of their person, their innate nature and natural rights - something close to your own heart, my loveliest love, you being a woman yourself. As far as I am concerned, women are equal to men - both in their dignity as a human being AS WELL AS in their potential to freely and willingly contribute to the common good of human society. However, as regards to purpose for which it has pleased our LORD to place Woman in the order of creation, she is what complements Man to make them both in all things a unit of one. Therefore, Man and Woman as regards to their innate natures are made to be distinct both in gender and physical function as well as in spirit and temperament, for the Man and the Woman are not made to be equal in their sense of divine as well as natural purpose but complementary that the unseen motions of destiny that lead each of them unto each other and into unity with each other be completely guaranteed and irresistible to both.

Yet because the image of the one Beautiful that is impressed upon the very substance of their souls are one, Man and Woman both possess an equal share of the divine dignity that is afforded only to human beings above all of visible creation.

It is easy to think that Women are weak because they are made to be fragile but all of these when seen in the context of the equal dignity of their persons as human beings with Man and understood in sense in exile time by the complementary functions of the gender opposites fall right into place - for this is the original order of things.

For the cause of Man's happiness and the cause of Woman's pains do not serve to follow each other but must be aligned in the course of their hopes together so that each may - as one - draw comfort from the love that each of them is able to bear for each other in God, begetting life from love and from love, eternal life.

This is, of course, the path of the married state as a path apart and distinct from the path of Holy Orders and the path of the chaste single individual.

It is easy to surrender Woman to her pains but that is not the cause for which Man is called to love his one and only true helper on this inhabited earth.

It is easy also for Woman despite the person of herself to surrender Man without recall to the corrupting effects of the blind pursuit of a happiness that exists not in this world apart from the beauty that is by design impressed upon both their working together to achieve something in their being together, through discipline, effort and love, that may only come by virtue of their mutual service of life above and beyond the confines of each of their own self - as one.

Women are as free to choose as Man yet both of them must strive to obey Liberty's cause and allow their choices to be shepherded by her hand in God and Country.

Education and its true purpose of completing the unique person of the human being in each of our selves must also be made ready and available to both gender opposites to achieve a quality of life that shall benefit their children and most especially where poverty exists, raise at least the next generation from the dust of the unknown earth.

This inhabited earth of ours, my love, built upon the collective tears and suffering of countless human beings, some may think is unlucky enough to be located in a place in our visible universe that seem backward and not central to things, real or imagined, desired by the heart of Mankind.

But the empty reaches of the void of space reflect the unseen reality of the void of the angels, both are extremely hostile to life and to human life most especially. That our one planetary home was purposed to exist far beyond the reaches of things unwanted may not be an "unlucky" thing for Mankind at all - in context of the greater governance of Divine Providence, there is no such thing as luck.

What seem like greener pastures often times turn out to be a temptation not to appreciate and understand what we already have been gifted to possess - a heart that is capable of love, a faith capable of moving mountains and hope in our belongings to each other as human beings.

Should we choose to accept the gifts of peace and turn away from war, and strive to nurture and bring out the microcosm that we see in the universe that exists within each of our souls, built by intelligent design by the one Creator of all things, excruciatingly slow and painfully difficult may each our progress seem to eyes so used to the empty hastening of time and hearts not open to the timeless substance of quickening truth, yet how great indeed, is the potential for wonder that all of the generations of life possess? It is near-infinite, no matter time, distance nor dimensional space, a near-infinite feat of a great and glorious, eternal design.

For each of us, in the peculiar reality of ourselves, must live to order to give unto others the true essence of our own peace so that others may have hope and all of life may continue in the course of exile time to achieve its ultimate purpose, a common destiny for all Mankind - and a Home for all our nations in a timeless, golden place, far, far away from all of this war and suffering, sin and death.

So to love, faith and patience give, and our hope takes to wing.

It's Monday and another work week ahead...

I love you, my loveliest love.

Always to always,

Pusing